Youâve been talking to this guy, and everything seems to be going smoothly.
Suddenly, he hits you with a âweâll seeâ answer, and you donât know what to do.
What does âweâll seeâ mean, and how do you respond?Â
If youâre ready to master the âweâll seeâ reply, just keep reading.
What Does It Mean When A Guy Says “We’ll See”?Â

If you’re not sure what he means when he says âweâll seeâ, you wonât know how to reply.Â
Typically, receiving this response from a guy means one of two things.
Heâs either flirting with you and trying to play coy, or heâs not that interested and doesnât like you enough to commit to a full âyesâ answer.
If the conversation is light and you have been joking back and forth, a âweâll seeâ comment is most likely flirtatious.
If youâre texting and he adds an emoji like the winking or kissy face, you can breathe a sigh of relief and smile, knowing heâs teasing and does like you.
However, if you feel like the conversation is dry or he’s taking a long time to respond, it may mean heâs not that interested and doesn’t want to say yes.Â
Let’s go over the best ways to respond in each scenario.
Heâs FlirtingÂ

If youâre into the guy youâre talking to or texting, and he responds with a flirty âweâll see,â you want to keep the conversation going.
Itâs ok to respond in an equally flirtatious manner, leading him on a bit to keep the light-hearted fun going.
Here are some examples:
âOh, we will, will we?â
The beauty of saying this is, it almost always gets a âyes we willâ answer back. The more he thinks of the two of you as âwe,â the better. Subconsciously it will draw him to you and make him want you more.Â
âNope, the answer is yes!â
Guys love strong women who know what they want. A guy will have a tough time turning down a girl he likes when she replies to him like this. Make sure not to sound bossy and keep the playful tone, but let him know youâre the one in charge!
âI guess Iâll just ask someone else, thenâ
As long as youâre both flirting with each other, this response reminds him how desirable you are and that itâs an honor youâre choosing him to spend time with you. If youâre responding over text, make sure to add a cute emoji at the end to ensure he knows youâre joking with him.Â
He Doesnât Like You Enough To Commit

If youâve been talking to a guy and he isnât acting as interested as youâd like, there is a chance heâs not that into you.
Guys are sometimes hard to read and can seem disinterested when theyâre simply distracted.
If you suspect his âweâll seeâ reply is because he doesnât want to commit, you can use a few responses to find out.
âDo you have something else going on?â
Itâs ok to ask him if there is another reason he canât give you a straightforward âyes.â He may have a prior commitment, so he wants to leave the possibility open to being with you.Â
âIâd really love for you to ____â
You can fill in the blank depending on the question you asked him. Telling him youâd love it if he said yes, shows him your interest in him, and youâre letting him know heâs important to you. If he responds positively, thatâs a great sign, but if he seems disinterested still, heâs most likely not interested in committing further.Â
âOkâ
This answer is a serious power move. Youâre telling him you donât have time for anyone that doesnât want to spend time with you and that he is the one missing out. You donât have to say it rudely, just reply with a sweet âokâ and walk away.Â
What Next?
If youâve determined whether his âweâll seeâ reply is flirting or if it means he doesnât like you enough to commit, youâre probably wondering what to do now.
That answer depends on your conclusion.
If he was flirting
If he was flirting with you, first of all, congratulations, thatâs amazing!
Youâre in a great position because heâs already shown his interest, and youâre able to have fun together and enjoy each otherâs company.
Now you can focus on letting the relationship grow. Assuming he does take you up on your original offer, enjoy your time together and see where it takes you.
Keep flirting with him and play a little hard to get. Remember, guys enjoy the âchase.â The best part of a new relationship is getting to know the other person.
If he didnât like you enough to commit
If he did have a prior commitment, and thatâs why he answered, âweâll see,â then keep talking to each other and see if the relationship progresses.
If it turns out he didnât like you enough, and that was why he chose not to commit to saying yes, it can hurt and make you feel upset or angry.
Try to remember that even though rejection hurts, it doesnât mean youâve done anything wrong or that youâre not good enough.
He simply isnât the right guy for you, which means there is someone else out there that will make you happy.
Donât let this one interaction keep you from opening yourself up again. Youâre wonderful and unique, and your worth isnât determined by what other people think!Â
Final Thoughts
Getting a âweâll seeâ reply can be scary and leave you feeling unsure and confused.
It can either mean heâs flirting with you or that he doesnât like you enough to commit to saying âyes.â
Whichever reason, remember, your worth is in yourself and not what others think of you.
I hope this post helps you gain the confidence you need to know how to respond when a guy tells you, âweâll see.â
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