If you’re looking to spice up your texts with your boyfriend, making bets with each other is a fun and flirty way to do it.
Who doesn’t love some healthy competition with their guy, especially when you’re apart?
Even if you don’t have a boyfriend these bet ideas are a great way to keep your text conversations with your crush fresh and exciting.
The best part is that after a bet there’s always a consequence, this is the perfect excuse to organize a date with your crush without it having to be a big deal!
Let’s get into the bet ideas!
Things To Bet On With Your boyfriend over text
What you’re betting on doesn’t need to be anything serious.
It can be as simple as the score of a sporting event, the outcome of a reality show you both watch, or you can play online phone games together like Scrabble.
Here are fifteen examples of things to bet on with your boyfriend over text:
- Bet on how much something will cost
- Bet on the weather
- Bet on the outcome of a reality show
- Bet on whether a coin will land on heads or tails
- Bet on who’s going to win a video game
- Bet on the score of a sporting event
- Bet on who can wake up at 5am for a whole week
- Bet on the value of Bitcoin
- Bet on who can do something the fastest
- Bet on the outcome of a game show
- Bet on which team will win a game
- Bet on who will say a certain word first
- Bet on if a flight is going to be delayed
- Bet on who will win an awards show
- Bet on who will fall asleep first
What’s more exciting about bets are the silly consequences for the loser!
Place playful bets with your boyfriend over text and see who comes out on top. The consequences for the loser can be funny, a little embarrassing, or even flirty.
Here are some fun bet consequences that’ll have you looking for reasons to place some playful fun bets with your boyfriend over text.
Consequences and rewards for losing or winning a bet with your boyfriend over text
1. Share an embarrassing story 🙈
This one is great over text if you can’t see each other for a while.
The loser has to share some of their most embarrassing moments with the winner. This will have you both cracking up laughing and will hopefully bring you closer as a couple.
You’ll definitely find out some fun things you didn’t know about each other while you laugh at all the silly things you’ve both done.
2. Pay for takeout 🥡
Have a cozy night at home together, watching movies or your favorite shows. The loser of the bet has to pick up dinner from the winner’s chosen spot.
What’s better than a date night in your comfy clothes where you don’t need to cook dinner or have to pay for it?
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, have him send you some takeout so you can video chat with your meals and you can brag about your victory.
3. Plan a mystery date 🕵️
This bet has the losing partner plan a surprise date for the other person.
The pressure is on to plan something they’d never expect, but don’t be surprised if there’s some playful payback on the date from the loser too.
If you’re the loser, try to add a fun twist to your date. Add a fun game of mini-golf where you can place a double-or-nothing wager to try and give him 2 punishments instead of one if he loses.
4. Send a flirty photo 📷
If you haven’t seen each other in a few days or currently have a long-distance relationship, spice things up with some flirty consequences for the loser.
The loser has to send flirty photos or messages to the winner. The winner can ask for something specific or just let them come up with something creative on their own.
5. Wear a silly costume 🤡
You can have a lot of fun with this one. The loser of the bet has to wear a silly costume, and the winner gets to choose not only the outfit but where and how long the loser has to wear it for.
Maybe they need to dress like Buddy the Elf on a date, or to a bar, or to a friend’s dinner party.
If you want to keep it a little more subtle, have him wear an embarrassing looking shirt or tie to work. You can pick one out for him from his closet or the local thrift store. It will be fun to hear if his coworkers make any comments about it!
No matter where he wears his funny outfit, he’ll definitely turn heads and make you laugh a ton.
6. Take care of the cleaning 🧹
If you’re looking around your home and notice some laundry or dishes piling up, it’s time to place a bet that you think you can win.
Text your guy your confident bet and let him know that the loser has to take care of the housework when they get home from work.
It definitely gets the cleaning taken care of and, if you choose your bet wisely, you might get to enjoy a nice relaxing bubble bath while you get all the chores done for you.
7. Pick the movie for movie night 📽️
This is another fun one for the winner!
Your boyfriend might be the type that always wants to watch some crazy horror movie or a raunchy comedy, and you just sit through them because they’re not always terrible.
So, if you win the bet, you get to pick the movie. Make sure you pick something you love to really get the most out of your victory.
This is fun for virtual movie nights, too, if you like to watch movies together over Zoom when you’re apart.
8. Choose a new activity to try together 👫
If you’re the winner of the bet, then you get to choose an activity for you both to do together that you’ve never tried before.
It can range anywhere from taking a cooking class together to signing up for skydiving courses and jumping out of a plane.
No activity is too big or too small, so if you want to keep it low-key by giving ax throwing or karaoke a try, just set up the activity and have a great time with the loser.
9. Give the winner a massage 💆🏼♀️
Who doesn’t love a good massage? They’re especially sweet from your partner and can be pretty intimate if done with care.
If neither of you are great at massages, opt for something a little easier, like a foot rub or a nice head massage.
It’s an excellent way to build intimacy and enjoy some quality relaxation time together.
10. Make the winner dinner 🍽️
This is always a fun one, especially if you’re typically the one that cooks or you go out for dinner quite often.
It’s a losing punishment that can really turn into a special bonding moment as you spend some time together in the kitchen.
You can definitely keep him company as he makes his special meal for you, and there are no rules that state you can’t help him out just a little too.
If you want to make things more exciting, make a fun rule that the loser can only wear an apron while they’re making the meal.
11. Grant three wishes 🧞
Your boyfriend likely isn’t a genie, so these wishes need to actually be possible.
Not sure what to ask for?
Consider choosing your three wishes from the list above and have the best winner’s day ever!
12. Keep it fun 🎉
Texting can get boring over time so placing some bets with consequences is a great way to keep things fresh and entertaining.
Think outside of the box with your bets and consequences to continue developing your bond with your boyfriend while you have a ton of silly fun along the way.
Whether you live together, just started dating, or have a long-distance relationship, bets keep the conversation going, and they’re a ton of harmless fun.
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